どうも、小野田（かろりぃ）です。
新しいクラス、新しい学校、
そんな新しい環境になってもうすぐ２ヶ月。
会社なら、上司が気遣って話しかけてくれますし
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そこまで孤独感はないと思いますが、
「学校」だとそうはいきません。
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そのグループに入るチャンスは一気に減ります。
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マリオカートシリーズのスタートダッシュの
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それは学校も同じ。
スタート出遅れしたって大丈夫。
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これは、発想を換えればいいんです。
ところで、
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そうではなく。
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そのときを狙って、話しかける。
誰か１人でいいんです。
どのグループに入ろうかな？
と考えると難しいんですが、
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とはいえ、結果的にそうなっていくだけで、
最初からそこを考える必要はありません。
まずは、１人。
そのときの課題として、
「どう話しかければいいか分からない」
というものが出てくるかと思います。
まさか「今日は天気がいいですね」
なんて授業中に急に言われたら、
ハトが豆鉄砲食ったような顔になること間違いなしですから。笑
不自然さがなくてオススメなのは、
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・字が小さくて見えないんだけど何て書いてある？
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人間、「自分は人の役に立てている」
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もしこの程度で不快そうな顔したら、
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頼みごとをする、というのはオススメです。
それに人に頼みごとをすれば、
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