どうも、小野田です。
あなたは仕事をしていて、こんな風に感じたことありませんか？
・仕事ができなくて自信ないし辞めたい
・このまま働き続けていいのか不安
・「辞める」の言葉が定期的に頭をよぎる
・怒られてばかりで自信喪失してる
・こんな状態で結婚できるのかどうか怖い
・現状を変えるには転職するしか方法はないのかな？
むかーし昔、少しだけ広告代理店で働いてたときも、
同僚の鈴木さん（仮名・30代前半）がこう漏らしてました・・・
「仕事できなくて自信ない。。」
今までとまったく違う建設業界から転職してきて、
まったく知識ない状態でのスタートだったらしい。
ゴリゴリにパソコン使うしWeb関係の話の多い仕事なのに、
パソコン操作もおぼつかない状態でした。
そんなわけで社長に怒られることも多く、
自信をなくしてたんですね。
一緒にご飯食べに行ったときは、
口癖のように「俺なんて・・・」と言ってました。
で、鈴木さん（仮名）が辞めるとき、
その最後の挨拶でも「自分は仕事できなくて。。」みたいな話をしたんですよ。
それを聞いた後、
いてもたってもいられず
ずっと言えずにいた愛の告白をしました。
・・・それはさすがにおかしい。笑
今まで恥ずかしくて言えなかったけど、
実は内心で思ってたことを伝えたんです。
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「鈴木さんはいつもそうやって自分を卑下して僕のことを褒めてくれたけど、違うんですよ！
鈴木さんには鈴木さんの良さがあって、
僕に無いものたくさん持ってるな〜って、いつも思ってました。
だからそんなに自分を卑下しないで、
鈴木さんらしく頑張っていってください！」
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鈴木さんは、すごく面白くていつも笑わせてくれた。
「営業の練習しよう！」って２人でやったときも、
鈴木さんの顔見るだけで爆笑して練習にならなかった。
（それは失礼。笑）
鈴木さんがいてくれたおかげで、
「今日は楽しいな」って思える日があったのは間違いないんですよ。
鈴木さんがいたから、
事務所内の空気が明るくなってました。
みんな爆笑してたもん。
つまり・・・
これ重要ポイントよ！
（唐突なオネエ感）
鈴木さんは、
ただ存在してるだけで貢献してた。
ここで２種類の自信について触れましょう。
２種類の自信とは？
・Doing（やったこと）の自信
・Being（存在）の自信
自信には、この２種類があるんです。
Doingの自信は、仕事だったら
「営業で売りまくれた！」とか
「クレーム処理が完璧だった！」とか
「事務仕事早く終わらせた！」という結果から生まれる自信のこと。
一般的には、こっちの方が重視されがちです。
貢献度が分かりやすいからね。
Doingの自信はみんな知ってるから、
僕らが知るべきはBeingの自信です。
これがまさに鈴木さんのこと。
（本人は自覚してなかったけど）
ただ存在してるだけで貢献してる！という状態。
鈴木さんの場合は「笑わせてくれる」だったけど、
他にも存在による貢献はあります。
たとえば、、、
・その人がいると癒される
・その人がいるとヤル気出る
・その人がいると前向きになれる
・その人がいると胸が熱くなる
・その人がいるとアイディアが閃く
こういうのって本人は自覚してないことが多いけど、
ちゃんと貢献してるんですよね。
ただ、その貢献度は分かりにくいから評価されにくい。
だから、本人は「自分なんて、、、」と自信なくすことが多いんです。
ですが、「ただ存在してるだけの貢献」もあるんだよ。
そういうカタチの貢献もあるんだよ。
これに気付けるかどうか。
Beingの自信を持てるかどうか。
Doingばかりに注目してませんか？
では、ありがとうございました。
◆LINE＠も好評です◆
技術ばかりに偏るコミュニケーション教材に疑問を感じ、
心×身体×技術
＝コミュニケーション力
そんな信念から、心と身体を整え
伝え方の技術も磨くために、
脳科学、東洋医学、哲学、心理学など
最高レベルの情報を惜しみなく発信してます。
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Decided to subscribe to the RSS feed if there is one, and a stop at learnanddevelopquickly confirmed that decision, content that I want delivered to me proactively rather than just remembered when I have time is content that has earned a higher level of commitment from me as a reader looking for reliable sources.
Looking forward to seeing what gets published next month, and a look at brightbanyan extended that anticipation across the broader site, finding myself looking forward to a sites future content rather than just consuming its existing content is a stronger commitment level than I usually reach with new finds and this site triggered that.
Now feeling the small relief of finding writing that does not condescend, and a stop at buildideasforward extended that respect for readers, content that treats its audience as capable adults rather than as people to be managed produces a different reading experience and this site has clearly chosen the respectful approach across all pieces.
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Giriş sayfasına yönlendirme için ana sayfadan ilgili buton seçilmeli. Hatalı bilgi girişinde erişim sağlanamaz. Her zaman resmi site olduğundan emin olunması gerekir.
Yeni kullanıcılar kolayca siteye kayıt olabilirler. Doğru bilgilerin girilmesi kayıt sonrası işlemleri kolaylaştırır. Hesap güvenliği için doğrulama zorunlu olabilir.
Siteye giriş sonrası birçok seçenek sizleri bekler. Spor bahisleri ve canlı oyunlar kolaylıkla oynanabilir. Kampanyalar hakkında bilgi alabilir ve fırsatları yakalayabilirsiniz.
Decided after reading this that I would check this site weekly going forward, and a stop at buildfocusedprogress reinforced that commitment, deciding to add a site to a regular rotation requires meeting a quality bar that very few places clear and this one cleared it cleanly without any noticeable effort or marketing push behind it.
Skipped a meeting reminder to finish the post, and a stop at jebmug held me past another reminder, when content beats meetings the writer is doing something extraordinary because meetings have institutional support behind them and yet good writing can still occasionally win that competition for attention which I find heartening today.
Reading this confirmed something I had been suspecting about the topic, and a look at findyournextfocus pushed that confirmation toward greater confidence, content that lines up with independently held intuitions earns a special kind of trust and I will return to writers who consistently land that way for me without overselling positions.
Probably worth setting aside a longer block to read more carefully than I can right now, and a stop at findmomentumquickly confirmed the longer block plan, the impulse to schedule dedicated time for a sites archive is itself a measure of trust and this site has earned that scheduling impulse from me clearly today actually.
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Picked this for a morning recommendation in our company chat, and a look at createclearoutcomes suggested I will mention this site again later, recommending content into a workplace context is a small editorial act that requires confidence in the recommendation and this site is making me confident in those recommendations consistently here too.
Reading this prompted a small note in my reference file, and a stop at buildfocusedgrowth prompted another, the rare site that contributes useful nuggets to my own working knowledge rather than just consuming my attention is worth the time investment many times over compared to the usual pile of forgettable scroll content.
Thank you for being clear and direct, that simple approach saves so much frustration on the reader’s end, and a stop at startwithpurposefuldirection only made me more sure of it, the rest of the content seems to follow the same pattern which is a great sign of consistent editorial care behind the scenes.
Now realising the topic deserved better treatment than it has been getting elsewhere, and a look at createforwardmotion extended that broader recognition, content that exposes the gap between actual quality and average quality elsewhere is doing the quiet work of raising standards and this site is contributing to that elevation in its own corner.
A piece that exhibited the kind of patience that good writing requires, and a look at startgrowingtoday continued that patient quality, hurried writing is easy to spot and this site reads as having been written without time pressure which produces a different feel than the rushed content that dominates much of the modern blog space.
Strong recommendation from me, anyone curious about the topic should make time for this, and a look at discoverforwardmomentum only sharpens that recommendation further, the kind of resource that holds up against careful scrutiny rather than crumbling at the first critical question is rare and worth pointing other people toward when the topic comes up.
Now setting up a small reminder to revisit the site on a slow day, and a stop at seomotive confirmed the reminder was a good idea, planning return visits is a small organisational act that signals trust in ongoing quality and this site has earned that planned return through consistent performance across the pieces I have read so far.
Now adding the homepage to my regular check rotation rather than waiting for individual links to find me, and a stop at hyxarch confirmed the rotation upgrade, the move from passive discovery to active checking is a vote of confidence in a sites ongoing quality and this site has earned that active engagement clearly.
Now organising my browser bookmarks to give this site easier access, and a look at createprogressjourney earned the same organisational priority, the small acts of digital housekeeping I do for sites I expect to use often are themselves a measure of trust and this site has triggered the trust based housekeeping behaviour from me clearly.
Stands out for actually being useful instead of just being long, and a look at startyourgrowthpath kept that going, length without value is the default mode of most blogs these days but this site has clearly chosen a different path which I respect a lot as a reader who values careful editing decisions like that.
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Took the time to read every paragraph rather than skimming for the punchline, and a quick visit to learnandtransformdirection earned the same careful attention from me, that is the highest signal I can give about content quality because my default mode is rapid scanning rather than deliberate reading on most pages.
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Just want to flag that this was useful and not bury the appreciation in caveats, and a look at discoverinnovativethinking earned the same direct praise, recognising good work without hedging it with criticism is something I try to practice because over qualified compliments tend to read as backhanded and miss the point sometimes.
A genuine compliment to the writer for keeping the post focused on what mattered, and a look at explorefutureopportunities continued that disciplined focus, focus is a editorial choice that compounds across many small decisions and this site has clearly made those small decisions consistently across what I have read so far this week here.
Felt energised after reading rather than drained, which is unusual for online content these days, and a look at startsmartmovement continued that good feeling, content that leaves you better than it found you is rare and worth bookmarking when you stumble across it for the first time today or any other day really.
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Vague feelings of recognition kept surfacing as I read because the writing names things I have been thinking, and a look at startthinkingbigger produced more of those recognition moments, content that gives shape to private intuitions is content that makes me feel less alone in my own thinking and this site has that effect.
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Glad to have another data point on a question I am still thinking through, and a look at learnandmoveahead added two more, content that acknowledges its place in a wider conversation rather than pretending to settle the question alone is intellectually honest in a way that I wish was more common across the open web.
Народ, приветствую. Дело деликатное, но решил черкануть пару строк, особенно когда речь идет о близких людях. Если ищете анонимного специалиста с быстрым выездом по городу, важно, чтобы доктор приехал оперативно и со своим оборудованием.
Сам долго изучал отзывы и искал надежный вариант, в итоге вся ценная информация была собрана по крупицам. Чтобы узнать точные цены и вызвать специалиста, советую посмотреть официальный источник: подробнее тут.
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Reading this slowly because the writing rewards a slower pace, and a stop at findyourprogresslane did the same, the pace at which I read content is something I now use as a quality signal and writing that earns a slower pace earns my attention as a reader looking for substance these days.
Good post, the kind that respects the reader by getting to the point quickly without skipping the details that matter, and a short look at findyourtruefocus confirmed that approach is consistent across the site which is rare to find online these days, definitely a place I will return to soon.
Saving this link for the next time someone asks me about this topic, and a look at discovernewfocusareas expanded what I will be sharing with them, this is the kind of resource that makes a real difference when you are trying to point a friend to something useful and reliable rather than generic marketing pages.