どうも、小野田です。
あなたは仕事をしていて、こんな風に感じたことありませんか？
・仕事ができなくて自信ないし辞めたい
・このまま働き続けていいのか不安
・「辞める」の言葉が定期的に頭をよぎる
・怒られてばかりで自信喪失してる
・こんな状態で結婚できるのかどうか怖い
・現状を変えるには転職するしか方法はないのかな？
むかーし昔、少しだけ広告代理店で働いてたときも、
同僚の鈴木さん（仮名・30代前半）がこう漏らしてました・・・
「仕事できなくて自信ない。。」
今までとまったく違う建設業界から転職してきて、
まったく知識ない状態でのスタートだったらしい。
ゴリゴリにパソコン使うしWeb関係の話の多い仕事なのに、
パソコン操作もおぼつかない状態でした。
そんなわけで社長に怒られることも多く、
自信をなくしてたんですね。
一緒にご飯食べに行ったときは、
口癖のように「俺なんて・・・」と言ってました。
で、鈴木さん（仮名）が辞めるとき、
その最後の挨拶でも「自分は仕事できなくて。。」みたいな話をしたんですよ。
それを聞いた後、
いてもたってもいられず
ずっと言えずにいた愛の告白をしました。
・・・それはさすがにおかしい。笑
今まで恥ずかしくて言えなかったけど、
実は内心で思ってたことを伝えたんです。
＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝
「鈴木さんはいつもそうやって自分を卑下して僕のことを褒めてくれたけど、違うんですよ！
鈴木さんには鈴木さんの良さがあって、
僕に無いものたくさん持ってるな〜って、いつも思ってました。
だからそんなに自分を卑下しないで、
鈴木さんらしく頑張っていってください！」
＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝
鈴木さんは、すごく面白くていつも笑わせてくれた。
「営業の練習しよう！」って２人でやったときも、
鈴木さんの顔見るだけで爆笑して練習にならなかった。
（それは失礼。笑）
鈴木さんがいてくれたおかげで、
「今日は楽しいな」って思える日があったのは間違いないんですよ。
鈴木さんがいたから、
事務所内の空気が明るくなってました。
みんな爆笑してたもん。
つまり・・・
これ重要ポイントよ！
（唐突なオネエ感）
鈴木さんは、
ただ存在してるだけで貢献してた。
ここで２種類の自信について触れましょう。
２種類の自信とは？
・Doing（やったこと）の自信
・Being（存在）の自信
自信には、この２種類があるんです。
Doingの自信は、仕事だったら
「営業で売りまくれた！」とか
「クレーム処理が完璧だった！」とか
「事務仕事早く終わらせた！」という結果から生まれる自信のこと。
一般的には、こっちの方が重視されがちです。
貢献度が分かりやすいからね。
Doingの自信はみんな知ってるから、
僕らが知るべきはBeingの自信です。
これがまさに鈴木さんのこと。
（本人は自覚してなかったけど）
ただ存在してるだけで貢献してる！という状態。
鈴木さんの場合は「笑わせてくれる」だったけど、
他にも存在による貢献はあります。
たとえば、、、
・その人がいると癒される
・その人がいるとヤル気出る
・その人がいると前向きになれる
・その人がいると胸が熱くなる
・その人がいるとアイディアが閃く
こういうのって本人は自覚してないことが多いけど、
ちゃんと貢献してるんですよね。
ただ、その貢献度は分かりにくいから評価されにくい。
だから、本人は「自分なんて、、、」と自信なくすことが多いんです。
ですが、「ただ存在してるだけの貢献」もあるんだよ。
そういうカタチの貢献もあるんだよ。
これに気付けるかどうか。
Beingの自信を持てるかどうか。
Doingばかりに注目してませんか？
では、ありがとうございました。
◆LINE＠も好評です◆
技術ばかりに偏るコミュニケーション教材に疑問を感じ、
心×身体×技術
＝コミュニケーション力
そんな信念から、心と身体を整え
伝え方の技術も磨くために、
脳科学、東洋医学、哲学、心理学など
最高レベルの情報を惜しみなく発信してます。
期間限定で電子書籍シリーズもプレゼント中！
コメント
Even just sampling a few posts the consistency is what stands out, and a look at startfreshtoday confirmed the broader pattern, sites where every piece I sample lives up to the standard set by the others are sites with serious quality control and this one has clearly invested in whatever editorial process produces that consistency reliably.
Felt the writer respected the topic without being precious about it, and a look at discovernewpotential continued that respectful but unfussy treatment, finding the right register for serious topics is hard and this site has clearly figured out how to take the topic seriously while still being readable for casual visitors regularly.
Just want to flag that this was useful and not bury the appreciation in caveats, and a look at buildsmartmomentum earned the same direct praise, recognising good work without hedging it with criticism is something I try to practice because over qualified compliments tend to read as backhanded and miss the point sometimes.
Most of the time I feel the open web is in decline and then I find a site like this, and a stop at learnanddevelopquickly reinforced that mood lift, the cumulative effect of finding occasional excellent independent content versus the cumulative effect of finding mostly mediocre content is real for the long term reader maintaining web habits today.
Most of my reading time goes to a small number of trusted sources and this one is now joining that group, and a stop at discoverwinningpaths reinforced the group membership, the few sites that earn a place in my regular rotation are sites I expect ongoing returns from and this one has earned that elevated position consistently.
The headings made navigating the post simple even when I needed to find a specific section quickly, and a look at buildstrategicdirection continued the same thoughtful structure, small details like clear headings show that someone is actually thinking about how the reader uses the page rather than just filling it for length alone.
Quality you can feel from the first paragraph, the writer clearly knows the topic and how to share it, and a quick look at scrolltower confirmed the same depth runs throughout the rest of the site as well which is rare and worth pointing out when it happens online for any reader passing through.
Worth marking this site as one to come back to deliberately rather than by accident, and a stop at createclaritysteps reinforced that intention, the difference between sites I find again by chance and sites I return to on purpose is meaningful and this one has clearly moved into the deliberate return category for me.
Bookmark added with a small mental note that this is a site to keep, and a look at startthinkingstrategically reinforced the keep status, the verb keep rather than visit captures something about how I think about this kind of site and it is a higher tier of relationship than I have with most places online today.
Reading this in my last reading slot of the day was a good way to end, and a stop at learnandoptimizeprocesses provided a satisfying close to the reading session, content that ends a day well rather than agitating it before sleep is the kind I value increasingly and this site fits that role for me consistently now.
как найти местоположение телефона по номеру http://kak-najti-cheloveka-po-nomeru-telefona-2.ru
melbet melbet
брендированные подарки suvenirnaya-produkcziya-s-logotipom-8.ru
Thanks for the moderate length, neither so short it skips substance nor so long it bloats, and a stop at discovermeaningfulgrowth hit the same balance, the right length is one of the hardest things to calibrate in blog writing and I appreciate when a team has clearly thought about it rather than defaulting.
Even just sampling a few posts the consistency is what stands out, and a look at jebbeo confirmed the broader pattern, sites where every piece I sample lives up to the standard set by the others are sites with serious quality control and this one has clearly invested in whatever editorial process produces that consistency reliably.
Recommended to anyone working in or curious about this area, the depth and clarity combine well, and a look at buildsmartprogress keeps that going across more pages, the kind of site that earns regular visits rather than chasing trends has my respect because it suggests genuine commitment to the topic itself rather than to chasing trends.
Once you start reading carefully here it is hard to go back to lower quality alternatives, and a stop at learnandoptimizefast reinforced that ratchet effect, the way good content raises standards is real over time and this site has clearly contributed to raising my expectations for what is possible in writing on the topic generally.
Now sitting with the thoughts the post triggered rather than rushing on to the next thing, and a stop at createimpactquickly extended that reflective pause, content that earns time for thought after closing the tab is content of higher value than the merely interesting and this site has clearly produced that lasting effect today.
After several visits I am now confident this site is one to follow seriously, and a stop at oliveorchard reinforced that confidence, the gradual building of trust through repeated quality exposures is the only sustainable way to develop reader loyalty and this site is building that loyalty in me through patient consistent work consistently.
Now appreciating that the post did not require external context to follow, and a look at inaarch maintained the same self contained quality, content that respects new visitors by being readable without prerequisites is content with broader accessibility and this site has clearly invested in keeping each piece reader friendly for fresh arrivals.
Took a few notes from this post, the points are easy to remember without needing to come back and check, and a look at createimpacttogether added a couple more, the kind of place that sticks in the memory long after the browser tab has been closed for the day which says a lot really.
Took my time with this rather than rushing because the writing rewards attention, and after learnandexpandfast I had even more to absorb, the kind of content that pays back the patient reader rather than punishing them with empty filler is something I look for and rarely find in regular searches lately.
Got pulled in by the headline and stayed because the content actually delivered on the promise, and a stop at startwithclearvision kept that trust intact, when a site lives up to its own framing it earns the right to keep showing up in my browser tabs going forward indefinitely from here on out really.
Once I trust a site this much I tend to read everything they publish and that is the trajectory I am on with this one, and a stop at createfocusedaction confirmed the trajectory, the rare progression from interested reader to comprehensive reader is something only certain sites earn and this one is earning that progression rapidly.
Reading this in segments because the day was busy, and the post survived the fragmented attention well, and a stop at holcap held up similarly under interrupted reading, content that can withstand modern distracted reading patterns rather than requiring a perfect block of focused time is increasingly the kind I prefer.
Different feel from the algorithmically optimised posts that dominate the topic, and a stop at buildsmartfoundations reinforced that human touch, you can tell when a site is being run by someone who reads what they publish versus someone just hitting submit and moving on quickly to the next assignment without checking the result.
Thanks for the honest framing without exaggerated claims that the topic will change my life, and a stop at growwithconfidencenow kept the same modest tone, restraint in marketing language signals trustworthiness and the writers here are clearly playing the long game by building credibility rather than chasing immediate clicks through hyperbole.
Speaking as someone who used to recommend blogs frequently and got out of the habit this site is rekindling that impulse, and a look at buildactionableprogress extended the rekindling, the recovery of an old habit triggered by encountering work that justifies it is itself a small kind of pleasure and this site is providing that recovery experience.
Polished and informative without feeling overproduced, that is the sweet spot, and a look at buildyournextmove hit it again, you can tell when a site has been built with care versus thrown together for the sake of having something to put online and this is clearly the former approach taken by the team.
Worth saying that the writing carries a particular kind of authority without making any explicit claims to it, and a stop at seosprout extended that earned authority feeling, sites that demonstrate expertise through the quality of their explanations rather than by stating credentials are sites I trust most and this site has it.
Considered alongside other sources I have been reading this one consistently rises to the top, and a stop at hupido maintained that top ranking, the informal ongoing comparison between sources is something I do whenever reading on a topic and this site keeps coming out near the top of those comparisons over many sessions.
цена вывода из запоя в стационаре цена вывода из запоя в стационаре
Felt like the post had been edited rather than just drafted and published, and a stop at createprogressmapping suggested the same care across the site, the difference between edited and unedited content is enormous for the reader and this site has clearly invested in the editing pass that most blogs skip entirely which really does show up.
Comfortable read, finished it without realising how much time had passed, and a look at buildstrategicdirection pulled me into more pages the same way, the absence of friction in good content lets time disappear and that is one of the highest compliments I can pay any piece of writing I find online during a regular search session.
Felt no urge to argue with the conclusions even though I started the post slightly skeptical, and a look at findnewopportunityflows maintained that pattern, writing that earns agreement through clarity of argument rather than rhetorical pressure is the kind I find most persuasive and the kind I want to read more of these days.
Came away with a small but real shift in perspective on the topic, and a stop at buildactionableprogress pushed that shift a bit further, the kind of subtle reframing that good writing does to a reader without making a big deal of it is something I always appreciate when it happens which is sadly not that often.
Quiet confidence runs through the whole post, no need to shout to make the points stick, and a stop at explorefreshgrowth carried that same restrained voice forward, content that respects the reader by trusting its own substance rather than dressing it up in theatrical language is what I look for online and rarely actually find these days.
Approaching this with the usual skepticism I bring to new sites and being slowly persuaded, and a stop at createprogressframework continued that gradual persuasion, the careful path from skeptical reader to genuine fan is the only one I trust and this site has walked me along that path through patient consistent quality across pieces.
мелбет приложение мелбет приложение
Will be back, that is the simplest way to say it, and a quick visit to findyourgrowthlane reinforced the decision, this site has earned a spot in my regular rotation alongside a few other reliable places I check when I want something genuinely informative without all the usual modern web noise getting in the way.
Now feeling the small relief of finding writing that does not condescend, and a stop at startmovingforward extended that respect for readers, content that treats its audience as capable adults rather than as people to be managed produces a different reading experience and this site has clearly chosen the respectful approach across all pieces.
A nicely understated post that does not shout for attention, and a look at bakeboxshop maintained the same quiet quality, understatement is a stylistic choice that distinguishes serious writing from attention seeking writing and this site has clearly committed to the understated approach as a core editorial value rather than just a phase.
Now planning to come back when I have the right kind of attention to read carefully, and a stop at discoveropportunityzones reinforced that plan, choosing the right moment to read certain content is a quiet form of respect for the work and this site is generating those careful planning behaviours from me consistently as a reader.
A piece that took its time without dragging, and a look at createyourstorytoday kept the same patient pace, the difference between unhurried and slow is a fine editorial distinction and this site has clearly found the unhurried side without slipping into the slow side which would have lost me as a reader quickly otherwise.
I usually skim posts like these but this one held my attention all the way through, and a stop at findbetterapproaches did the same, that is a strong endorsement coming from me because I am usually quick to bounce when content gets repetitive or fails to deliver on its initial promise made in the headline.
Closed the tab and immediately reopened it ten minutes later because I wanted to reread a part, and a stop at findgrowthopportunitiesnow drew the same return, content that pulls you back after closing it is doing something well beyond the average and worth marking as exceptional in my mental catalogue of reliable sites.
Got something practical out of this that I can apply later this week, and a stop at findgrowthdirections added more details to think about, this is exactly the kind of content I bookmark for future reference rather than the throwaway listicles that dominate most search results these days for almost any common topic.
Felt the writer was being honest with the reader which is rare enough that I want to acknowledge it, and a look at startwithpurpose continued that honest feel, content built on actual knowledge rather than aggregated summaries is something I value highly and rarely come across in regular searches on the open internet these days.
Thanks for putting this online without locking it behind email signups or paywalls, and a quick visit to siloteapot kept that open feel going, content that trusts the reader to come back rather than gating access is the kind of approach I will reward with regular return visits over time happily.
Thanks for sharing this with the open internet rather than locking it behind a paywall like so many sites do now, and a stop at startnextphase kept the same vibe going, generous helpful and clearly written by someone who actually wants people to learn from it rather than just charge them.