あなたのその悩み、自分で複雑にしてるかもよ

恋愛・コミュニケーション

どうも、小野田です。
LINE@の質問・相談キャンペーンでいただいた相談をシェアしますね。




悩み相談に乗ってると、このパターンめっちゃあります。

「え、それはシンプルに〇〇なんじゃないの?」
って投げかけたら、
「ああ、たしかに」って。

このやり取りだけで終わる。笑
 

よくある恋愛相談だと、

相手「同じ好きな人を狙うライバルいた!どうしよう?」
僕「うん、でも別に君がやることは変わらないよね?」
相手「ああ、たしかに」

みたいな。
 

でも、悩みの渦中にいる本人は気付きにくかったりするんですよね。

だから、思考整理するのが得意な人に話してみるのはオススメ。

部屋中に散らかってたモノを、
1つの収納ボックスに収めてくれたみたいにスッキリできる。
 

案外、あなたの悩みもシンプルなのかもよ?

ではでは、今回はこれで。
いつもありがとうございます!

「なかなか周りの人には相談しにくい!」
って場合は、僕のLINE@にメッセージ送ってくれれば返信しますよ!
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ついでにプレゼントもあります↓
 

◆LINE@も好評です◆

技術ばかりに偏るコミュニケーション教材に疑問を感じ、
心×身体×技術
=コミュニケーション力

そんな信念から、心と身体を整え
伝え方の技術も磨くために、
脳科学、東洋医学、哲学、心理学など
最高レベルの情報を惜しみなく発信してます。

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